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Mike C's avatar

Just read The Comfort Crisis by Michael Easter (https://amzn.to/3bWjmoN) and it hit on similar themes. Not a must-read by any means, but sharing in case anyone wants to explore this topic a bit more.

What I'm reflecting on is the difference between artificial/manufactured challenges and real challenges thrown at you by life (or the Masai elders).

An illness or death of a loved one forces you to confront the challenge and inevitably grow as a result. The Masai boy 'must' succeed in his quest -- there is no alternative or backup plan.

On the other hand, can we get as much from manufacturing challenges with growth as the intended outcome? Training for and running a marathon would teach most people to their physical limits, but in the end isn't life or death.

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River Emrys's avatar

I recommend Robert Bly's "Iron John". Read the first 28 pages, decide if it's worth your time.

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