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Maya's avatar

Reading this has made me realise I am actually developing good habits. Being fixated on the idea of doing them daily causes me to think I'm not making any progress. But with things like writing and reading, at times I don't do them often, but I always end up going back to them with even more enjoyment than before.

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George Dy's avatar

I always enjoy reading your writing because it too feels unforced - and I think tone is often more important for me than hard facts. I think the thing that has always worked for me with forming new habits hasn’t been the speed, but the feel and gratification. Sometimes, it takes time for your mind to realize that you enjoy something before it starts to turn those behaviors into a habit. I think age and society have helped push me into a greater sense of gratification and joy with exercise that my younger self never really appreciated.

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